We'd been together for a while, talked about it, and decided we were ready. My BF at the time and I were both virgins. Mentioning his mom after doing the deed is so not sexy. He was totally nice about it, but I definitely don't look back on the experience fondly." It hurt really bad, too, so I started crying about a second into it. My high school boyfriend and I couldn't fool around on my bed, because it was visible through the window, so we were on my really tacky star-print black carpet that I had picked out when I was 10. He's still my current boyfriend and now we just laugh about that entire night." Although it was kind of a blurry intoxicated mess, I'm so glad it was with him. I had been dating this guy for a couple of months and knew that I wanted to lose my virginity with him.
"I wish I could say it was magical and fireworks, rose petals, or candles were involved but in reality, I was pretty drunk and decided that I just was ready. It wasn't a great sexual experience, but he was really sweet." So when I was 24, I decided to go for it with a cute guy with an accent who drove a Porsche and did amazing things with his mouth. "Basically I felt like I was getting to be too old to still be a virgin.
Source: HBO He was sweet, drove a Porsche, AND had an accent. But it was worth the wait and not that bad for the first time! Plus, we've since had plenty more times to practice!" I should add that I was a late bloomer: I was 22. We had been hanging out (and making out) for a few months, but this was the night we made it official. "My first time was after my first official date with my future spouse. Bonus: his dad is a somewhat well-known C-list actor, so now I've got a great story whenever people ask." That's not how everyone would have gone about cashing in the ole V card, but it was perfect for me. It happened in my parents' guesthouse, and I didn't mention the whole virgin thing until we were in bed naked - whoops! It was sweet and fun with no emotional attachment, just the way I wanted it. We had spent most of the Summer hanging out, and although we weren't dating, I felt supercomfortable with him and was really just ready. It was the Summer after high school, and I didn't want to start college as a virgin. "He was two years younger than me but more experienced. I just kept thinking, "That's it?" Thank goodness I've had much better sex since!" When we got back to his place, I was so excited for some mind-blowing sex. We kissed on the beach at sunset like it was out of a fairy tale (except for the garlic breath).
It was a painstaking process with lots of chatting to find someone who I was sure didn't intend to lock me in a closet the second I got into his house. So I took to the Internet to find a guy who was down to pop a virgin's cherry. No first date, no first kiss, no first blow job. "I was in college about to celebrate my 19th birthday and I had experienced none of my firsts. Maybe finding a guy on the Internet isn't the way to go. "I lost my virginity in the trunk of a car while my parents thought I was at church. If I could go back, I'd tell my 15-year-old self to slow down, be patient, google 'how to give a hand job,' and never ever ever risk unprotected sex! I also think sex-ed did a disservice to my generation by harping on abstinence and not discussing other ways to pleasure your partner (that are not sex)."
Luckily, there weren't horrible repercussions, but there so easily could have been. It was unexpected so there was no condom. "I wasn't ready but got lost in the moment. Should have googled "how to give a hand job" first.